Secret of life

  When I say to value  persons in life means value of that person not how much you feel happy with him or her. But its voidness that you feel without that per in your life. Normally when our near or dear ones are alive we do not consider their worth in our life, we just think they are there and always will be there. But the fact is that  as per the rule of nature, we all have to go one day to a place from where we can never return, can not make a phone call, nor message. We can not hear them, nor our dear ones can hear us once we depart from this world. This lesson I have learnt personally that when my dad went away to his heavenly abode at the age of 51. Because of some problem, I was displeased with my dad and did not talk to him for two days. I never knew that my dad was very sick, because nobody from the family informed me about his sickness. He died in front of me while taking him to hospital. That day was the black day of my life. Till today I feel grieved, I regret...

  WHAT TO DO WHEN ALL THE DOORS ARE CLOSED FOR YOU  In life many a times due to continuous  failure, struggle, ups and downs, torture, pains and sufferings bring hopelessness in a person's   life. We expect certain things in our life but it just happens opposite of our desire. We all have various dreams  in our lives. Many of us desire good job, good family, good house, good life style etc. This type of dream motivates us to go ahead in life.  We try our best but unfortunately a stage comes in life where we feel we have lost everything. We look around and find that there is no one in the world to help. And the question is: 1. What should you do? 2. Where should you go? and to whom should you speak?  1. Remember that you are not the only person going through this situation .  It is so easy to feel alone. Suddenly your world becomes smaller and smaller and you think it's just you going through whatever it is you're experiencing. Remember that y...

             MANAGE YOUR ANGER                          Anger is an emotion experienced by all of us including kids . When something or someone interferes with an individual in a negative manner, it  causes them to become angry. Anger is a normal response to such a situation. However anger can be classified as a mild or intense irritation. Depending on the individual, the circumstances and their emotions. Anger may cause a person to become enraged or even furious. People who become angry behave in different ways. Some fire  out or become extremely defensive. Other people tend to keep their anger to themselves, bottling up their negative emotions and hurt. While some people become reckless and even abusive. Anger can be a terribly harmful emotion if it is not controlled. Ways and means to control your anger  Controlling anger is considered as anger management. The first ste...

HOW TO BE CONFIDENT: Be careful what you believe because that is what you will experience. Your belief system is a mechanism which is uniquely yours. It is powered by your desire and controlled by your thoughts and actions. In other words, your success is measured by the strength of your belief. What is it that you desire? Often people do not have a clue what it is they want, they just know what they do not want. Now it is a good time to evaluate your goals and determine the end result you want to achieve. Put your goals in writing and place them where you can see them throughout the day. Read them frequently to keep them fresh on your mind. However the obstacles   come on your way, keep going, believe in yourself, remember that God who created you is carrying  you, walking beside you.  Always be positive because nothing is permanent  in this world everything  will pass away. When  tough times come on your way just relax, close your eyes and take deep breat...

Surprisingly, there are millions of people who are not aware that they’re  stressed out and need relief from it as soon as possible. Also  there are some people who refuse to acknowledge that they need to get rid of anxiety, pain and sufferings that they are facing in their life. If you really want to over come of this problem , you need to identify them first. 1. Busy people who make overtime work seem like a regular part of the job are usually bothered with insomnia and muscle aches because they’ve disturbed their physicals cycle and they have no time at all for body to take care of. If this describes you, then yes, you are already experiencing stress and you need  from it right away. Workaholics who have high paying but demanding and high pressure jobs always have to be on the go and prepared for any eventuality. Hence, they tend to have increased appetite or loss of due to lack of time for eating; an increased intake of sugar and caffeine to ensure that they can ...