WHAT TO DO WHEN ALL THE DOORS ARE CLOSED FOR YOU

 In life many a times due to continuous failure, struggle, ups and downs, torture, pains and sufferings bring hopelessness in a person's  life. We expect certain things in our life but it just happens opposite of our desire.

We all have various dreams  in our lives. Many of us desire good job, good family, good house, good life style etc. This type of dream motivates us to go ahead in life.  We try our best but unfortunately a stage comes in life where we feel we have lost everything. We look around and find that there is no one in the world to help. And the question is:

1. What should you do?

2. Where should you go?

and to whom should you speak?

 1. Remember that you are not the only person going through this situation.  It is so easy to feel alone. Suddenly your world becomes smaller and smaller and you think it's just you going through whatever it is you're experiencing. Remember that you are not alone. You are part this world much bigger than you ever thought. Connect with people, talk to people whom you can trust or you feel they

 won't mock at you.

2. Always remember that "Nothing in this world is permanent". 

So too your sufferings.  With no hope, you're in pain and your suffering.  By opening up to a friend, teacher, relative about what you're experiencing, you are letting go off your emotions.

3. Remember that "Always there is sun shine behind the dark clouds."  Clouds are not permanent. It goes away. It is the rule of the nature. So the moment that has come  to your life will not remain forever. so my dear brotheren never lose hope. Even though your feet stumble, rise up, move ahead thats how you can handle your problems.

4.  Rise up and look around you:
Live in present, think positively, visit parks and the places you like most. Love your self, accept yourself as you are, for this time too will pass away. 
Be friendly with yourself and you will begin to feel some changes within you. 
Tell your self every day that you are brave, you are strong and nothing can shake you because my friend its you who can change your mindset, feelings and destination.


Remember nothing is permanent, and your crucial time that you are going through is also not permanent.


All the best, take care and be happy for God loves you.


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